Wedding Invitation And Wedding Cards

A wedding invitation is a letter asking the recipient to attend a wedding. It is typically written in formal, third-person language and mailed five to eight weeks before the wedding date.

Like any other invitation, it is the privilege and duty of the host—historically, for younger brides in Western culture, the mother of the bride, on behalf of the bride's family—to issue invitations, either by sending them herself or causing them to be sent, either by enlisting the help of relatives, friends, or her social secretary to select the guest list and address envelopes, or by hiring a service. With computer technology, some are able to print directly on envelopes from a guest list using a mail merge with word processing and spreadsheet software.

Etiquette regarding the text on a formal wedding invitation varies according to country, culture and language. In Western countries, a formal invitation is typically written in formal, third-person language, saying that the hosts wish for the recipient to attend the wedding and giving its date, time, and place.

As the bride's parents are traditionally the hosts of the wedding, the text commonly begins with the names of the bride's parents as they use them in formal social contexts, e. g. , “Mr. and Mrs. John Q Smith" or “Dr. Mary Jones and Mr. John Smith". The exact wording varies, but a typical phrasing runs as follows:A modern wedding invitation

Dr. Mary Jones and Mr. John Smith request the honour of your presence at the wedding of their daughter Mary Jane to Colonel Dusty Rhodes at two o'clock on the first of November at Christchurch Hall

Note the seemingly anglicised spelling ‘honour'; this derives from a ruling laid down by Emily Post in the 1920s. Other words formed in the same way, such as ‘favor', are not similarly modified but retain their U. S. spelling.

In the United Kingdom, the line “request. presence" is more usually rendered as “request the pleasure of your company". Another common British practice is to make provision for inserting the names of the guest or guests by using some such form as “request the pleasure of the company of . “, the dots representing a separate dotted line on which the name or names can be inserted by hand. Another difference between British and U. S.

conventions is that in Britain the date is usually written in a mixture of words and figures rather than in words alone (e. g. “on Tuesday 1st November 2011").

If the groom's parents are also hosts of the wedding, then their names may be added as well. If the parents are not the hosts of the wedding, then the host's name is substituted in the first line, or, especially if the bride and groom are themselves the hosts, it may be written in the passive voice: “The honour of your presence is requested at the wedding of. “

Formal announcements, sent after the wedding ceremony, omit the time and sometimes the place, but usually retain the same general form.

Informal invitations, appropriate to less formal weddings, are issued by word of mouth or by hand-written letter. So long as they convey the necessary practical information about the time and place, there is no set form for these invitations.

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